Helping Marriages Survive & Thrive After Infidelity

 

Infidelity in marriage makes you doubt everything, including your own judgment.   
 

Your husband seems sincere in wanting to work things out. You want to stay married.

 

But you think to yourself, "Only weak women stay with cheaters. Strong women walk!" 

 

Then you loop and want a divorce, until you think of your kids being spilt between two homes.... and now you want to stay married.

 

Lather, Rinse, Repeat.

 

You will never get unstuck until you develop criteria around if your husband is sincere in wanting your marriage to recover after infidelity. 

 

Included in Fool Me Once:

  • 5 Things That Look Suspicious (But Probably Aren't)
  • 5 Signs You Should Consider Giving Him Another Chance 
  • 7 Signs He is Going to Cheat Again (And You Will Be Hurt Again)

As they say "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me."  

 

 

 

Your husband cheated on you, and now you don’t recognize yourself. 

 

You are not crazy! You are having a normal reaction to being blindsided by your husband's betrayal! Your reactions are completely rational and expected responses to such a painful experience.

 

This book will help you figure out what to do as you deal with these explosive emotions. It's important that you understand that your feelings - erratic and unpredictable as they may be - are normal. 

Included in Blindsided By His Betrayal:

  • Description of Post-traumatic Affair Syndrome (PTAS)
  • Seven actions you want to take but should not (as they may backfire horribly)
  • Understand the thoughts that plague you
  • 12 actions that will help you get back to the woman you were
  • The stupid things your husband says and why he says it

You've been blindsided by his betrayal. Read this book to get you back to being you!

 

 

 

 

You are a good man who made a bad decision. You were unfaithful in your marriage.

 

You love your wife, and now that you see clearly what your infidelity has done to her, you are incredibly sorry that you have hurt her so much.

You want to save your marriage. You don't want to lose your family. I know that you are doing your best to regain your wife's trust, but no matter what you do, you seem to make it worse. She has so many questions about your affair. So. Many. Questions.

 

In After a Good Man Cheats you'll learn the things your wife is going to feel, say, and do, giving you the following:

  • Insight into what she is thinking and why this is so hard for her to process
  • Practical advice so you know exactly what to do at this important stage
  • Clear explanations as to why certain words and actions you think will be helpful might be making this worse
  • Two self-administered quizzes to help you determine why you cheated so you can get a better understanding of what triggered your affair.  

This is the most important time for you to get things right, because your wife is actively deciding at this stage whether or not she wants to stay with you. 

When clients come to me, they're usually feeling...

  • Betrayed!

    This is very likely the most painful experience you've ever had. You've been sucker punched in the soul.

  • Confused!

    Your world is crashing down. You feel like a nuclear bomb just decimated your entire world, and you are trying to shield yourself from the fallout.

  • Crazy!

    All of this makes you feel like you are losing it. Sometimes you worry that you are going crazy. You wonder if you'll ever be the same again.

That's where I come in.

Are you in a marriage worth fighting for or

should you send him packing?

 

What if you could have clarity as to what your next steps should be right now?

  • Stop spinning in circles

    He seems sincere in wanting to work things out. You want to stay married. But then you think to yourself, "Only weak women stay with cheaters. Strong women walk!" Then you loop and want a divorce, until you think of your kids being spilt between two homes.... and now you want to stay married.

    Lather, Rinse, Repeat.

  • Know what you need from your husband to heal

    You know he wants to help, but he keeps hurting you with his words. Let me help identify what you need so you can tell him what you need to feel safe again.

  • Be at peace with that the decisions you make are rational and what's best for everyone effected.

    I'm not here to tell you to stay or go. Only you can decide that. What I can do is give you clear criteria based on research & clinical experience for you to make your decision.

​I've helped hundreds of wives through this. I can help you too.

As Your Infidelity Recovery Coach, I'll help you: 

  • Understand what's going on

    You are so confused. Your emotions are volatile - one minute you're so angry you could claw his eyes out, the next moment you're devastated with grief because you fear he will to leave you for his affair partner. 

  • Give you criteria to determine whether to stay or go

    You never wanted a divorce, but somehow you are now in this position. Do you take him back or blow up your family? What about the kids? It's all so unfair!

  • Help Him Help You Heal

    I'll explain the stupid things he says and does. Is he well-meaning but saying dumb things or is he a philander looking to blame you and escape responsibility. One you know the difference, you can ask for change.

  • Get back to feeling like you again

    Don't let his poor choices define you & how you view yourself.

Meet Your New Coach

​Hi, I'm Dr. Caroline!

I've helped countless couples restore their marriages after infidelity.
I’ve also helped wives decide when it’s time to throw in the towel. While I am pro-marriage  (meaning I work primarily with couples who want to make the relationship work), I recognize that not all marriages can be or even should be saved. Helping you figure out the differences between the two is what coaching with me is all about.  

 

  • Author of Three Books on Infidelity

    "Blindsided By His Betrayal",  "Fool Me Once" & "After A Good Man Cheats".

  • Experienced Licensed Marriage Therapist

    My LA based therapy private practice is focused on helping couples recover after infidelity.

  • Mama Bear

    I understand that once you have kids, life isn't all about you anymore. I will factor them into every decision I help you with.

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